I am not an advocate of tough love. Many people swear by it. I am sure it has benefits. I just believe that tender love has far more of them. Love is designed to be tender. The love that we have for others must be properly administered. When it isn’t, damage can occur. Damaging our loved ones is not something that most of us want to do. Tender Love (1985), by the Force M.D.’s, is a beautiful song to listen to. It reminds us of how we should be loving. Use it to help you make any necessary adjustments.