Love can be destructive. The power to save must also be the power to destroy. I have met people who were not looking to be in love because of the risks involved. If you are not perfect, then you are capable of hurting whomever you are in love with. It is that simple. It Ain’t Over ‘Til It’s Over (1991), by Lenny Kravitz, touches upon the hurt and pain that can result from being in love. Love is one of life’s many learning experiences. We have to learn the ways that we should be loving others and ourselves. We also must learn the ways that others should be loving us.