My father told me that women change after marriage when I was a little boy. He said that they show the best of themselves beforehand. Everything they kept hidden comes out afterward. Single ladies tend to agree with this when I ask their thoughts. Married ladies tend to tell me that they were the same before and after the ceremony. I think what my father told me is true of both sexes in most cases. Sooner or later, what is hidden will surface. I will try not to repel you if I don’t want to lose you. We all feel this way at some point in our lives. It’s human nature. Hurt can make us feel otherwise. Michael Jackson’s Human Nature (1983) reminds me that I have always felt this way. I hope I always will.