I have a hard time accepting gifts. I love to give gifts and do nice things for others but I do not fully enjoy being on the receiving end. It makes me feel like I am in debted to you. If I do not immediately pay you back in some way, it is because you have gotten close to me. If we are close, I can wait to give you what I owe you. Cater 2 U (2004), by Destiny’s Child, is not easy for me to listen to. I love this song but its lyrics make me feel guilty. Because even when you are close to me, there is a limit to what I will let you do for me. I do not want to be catered to by anyone other than myself. Nothing that I miss out on can be worth a clear conscience.